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"Hit Man - Frank Dileo" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2008-10-13 06:20:34

Frank Dileo was at his home in eastern Ohio just outside of Pittsburgh when he got the phone call that would have him blowing Joe Pesci’s Technicolor brains all over the big screen. It had been just two days earlier that he’d received another far less heartening call. With the punch of a few buttons he’d been sacked from the most coveted job in the music industry a job he’d held for five years—that of Michael Jackson’s manager. It was late winter 1989 and Dileo and Jackson had just finished the grueling 16-month-long Bad World Tour. The stress of moving the MJ circus—213 strong—every three days across four continents had caused Dileo to put on considerable weight. So he headed to Duke University’s medical center to trim down and regain his health. Good thing too because doctors discovered he’d developed diabetes. A week into his weight-loss regimen he got the news that he’d been unceremoniously dumped by the King of Pop. Dangerously overweight. Diabetic. Fired by Michael Jackson. Not what you would call an auspicious turn of events. But if you ever see Frank Dileo pick up the dice at a craps table put all your chips on the pass line—because if history’s any indicator he’ll roll a 7 or 11. Screw the law of averages. His hot streaks make the Harlem Globetrotters look like Charlie Brown with a football. But that didn’t stop the vultures from circling the Duke campus once the Jackson news dropped. To escape the media frenzy. Dileo headed for the refuge of his Ohio home. The following day. Frank recalls people were calling his house to see what happened. It didn’t sound like any big deal when his wife said. “Hey. Martin Scorsese’s on the phone.” Three years earlier. Scorsese had directed Jackson’s “Bad” video. Offhandedly he told Dileo the video’s executive producer that he looked like a character in the director’s next picture. Wiseguys it was called based on a true-crime book about a mobster who flipped on his cronies. Dileo wrote it off as banter. Now here the guy was years later calling out of the blue. “I thought. OK he probably wants to say gee sorry to hear what happened,” Dileo says. “So I say. ‘Hey Marty how you doin’?’ He said. [impersonating Scorsese’s clenched delivery] ‘Hey you remember three years ago. I talked to you about doing a movie?’ I said. ‘Yeah the book Wiseguy.’ He said. ‘Well. I’m casting today. Will you still do it?’ And I said. ‘Yeah. I thought you were calling because I got fired.’ Just like that a guy with neither acting experience nor aspirations winds up working for perhaps the greatest director of his generation in one of the best movies of the decade. Goodfellas. Not to mention he gets to turn Pesci’s gray matter red in one of cinema’s most storied whack jobs. All this just two days after being fired by the biggest act in the business. For anyone else this would all be highly improbable. But for Frank Dileo it’s par for the course. His life story has more highlights than Farrah Fawcett’s hair and reads better than half the screenplays floating around Hollywood. And in January it brought him back to Nashville—where he lived briefly in the early ’70s—to get back into what he insistently calls “show business.” He already opened a management company and is getting ready to open a publishing company. There’s speculation that when he emerged from the womb. 60 years ago last month. Frank Dileo already had a cigar in his mouth. Look at the pictures on his office walls and in his photo albums and more often than not he’s either holding or chomping on a fat unlit stogie. As a mystique-building accessory those cigars have long since earned their keep. On the wall of Dileo’s Music Row apartment hangs a framed cartoon by the renowned late cartoonist for the London Evening Standard. Raymond Allen Jackson (known as Jak). An enormous lit cigar so big that four men are holding it is coming through the front doors of the Mayfair Hotel. The smoker is not yet visible. The caption reads. “I don’t know about Michael Jackson—but here comes his manager.” Add to the cigar his gold watch pinkie ring manicured hands and Music Row-casual attire and Dileo could be the poster boy for National Dress the Part Week. At 5-foot-2 he looks like he stepped out of Central Casting’s Music Biz Dealmaker file. And whether or not such visual signifiers are essential to success in the music industry. Dileo’s track record—by 21 he was RCA’s national singles director by 35 one of the most powerful men in the business—proves they certainly don’t hurt. Dileo’s musical odyssey began in the late ’60s shortly after high school with a position as a Pittsburgh rack jobber (a distributor who puts records in stores). That stint was followed by a series of brief steadily higher-profile jobs a rise that paralleled the sharp upward trajectory of the pubescent rock ‘n’ roll record business. First stop was Cleveland where Dileo ran local promotions for CBS subsidiary Epic Records plugging records by The Hollies. Donovan and Sly & the Family Stone to nearby radio stations. He did so well that Epic bumped him up to a regional post in Chicago. But it was a jump shortly after to RCA that muscled Dileo into the big leagues. “I think I’d just turned 21,” Dileo recalls. “I was the youngest [national singles promotion head] they’d ever had. We had a great run there. We had Harry Nilsson we had Waylon we brought back Elvis with ‘Burning Love.’ We had John Denver—in fact me and my boss at the time. Frank Mancini actually talked John Denver into putting the banjo on ‘Take Me Home. Country Roads.’ One of the best things I ever did was the Charley Pride single [‘Kiss an Angel Good Morning’]. We were able to cross it over and make it into a pop record.” Around 1972 an offer from Monument Records gave Dileo his first taste of Music City USA. “This was the real Monument,” he says. “which was Fred Foster one of the nicest guys I’ve ever met.” (Besides starting the storied Nashville label. Foster produced all of Roy Orbison’s hits gave Dolly Parton her start and co-wrote “Me and Bobby McGee” with Kris Kristofferson.) During his tenure at Monument. Dileo worked records by Kristofferson. Billy Swan. Boots Randolph the Gatlin Brothers and Charlie McCoy. Soon though the disco era of the late ’70s reared its polyester head—a trend that disheartened many record execs. Dileo included. So he took some time off and headed back to Pittsburgh. “I didn’t really fit into the disco era,” Dileo says. “Could you see me out there dancing under a disco ball? No. I don’t think so.” Devil’s workshop or not. Dileo’s idle mind hatched a hazardous new enterprise that would soon run him afoul of the law—college-basketball bookie. Though he wisely recorded his bets on rice paper the cops nabbed him before he got his betting slips into the toilet. “I had nothing else to do and I got bored,” Dileo readily admits. “Did I do time? No. Was I fined? Yes. They were misdemeanor charges. I paid a fine and there was no problem. I’m not ashamed of it—I’ve never done anything that I should be ashamed of.” Frank Dileo didn’t send flowers the day disco died. On July 12. 1979 the Chicago White Sox and radio station WLUP-FM teamed up for Disco Demolition Night at Comiskey Park. It turned into a riot when 90,000 disco-hating fans twice the stadium’s capacity showed up. Fans rushed the field knocked over the batting cage and started burning records and blowing things up causing the Sox to forfeit the second game of a double-header. The event ignited an anti-disco backlash from which the genre never recovered. But while the fortunes of Gloria Gaynor the Village People and KC & the Sunshine Band were plummeting back to earth. Frank Dileo’s career was zooming toward hyperspace. That same year. Dileo rejoined CBS Records. Soon thereafter he became vice president of promotion at Epic where he’d gotten his start. Over the next several years during his tenure. Epic Records would explode going from the 14th biggest label to No. 2. Industry insiders would say that Frank Dileo was the main reason. A couple of times during that period he was voted Epic’s executive of the year. “We had a big run at Epic,” Dileo says. “We worked on some really gigantic records. REO Speedwagon where we got three or four singles off that album [Hi Infidelity] that sold 8 million. Quiet Riot. We had Ozzy we had Dan Fogelberg. We worked on Cyndi [Lauper] real hard. In fact. I was supposed to be in her video. I backed out at the last minute. That’s why they put her with [wrestler Captain Lou Albano] as her father. I thought that if I did that then everybody would think they had to put me in their video to get attention and I didn’t want to start that kind of stuff.” During this period. Dileo found a rejection pile of videos on the desk of Epic A&R vice president Greg Geller. “I said. ‘What are these?’ ” Dileo remembers. “He said. ‘Oh. I don’t think you’ll like these acts.’ I said. ‘Well let me be the judge of that.’ ” Dileo took the videos and watched them then came back holding the tape of one act an oddball British pop group led by a hulking mascara’d cross-dresser. Dileo told Geller he liked this…this—Culture Club it was called. “He said. ‘You really do?’ “ Dileo remembers. “I said. ‘Yeah call them up. Tell ’em we want to make a deal.’ ” It’s hardly suprising that Geller was initially disbelieving. Here was Frank Dileo a tough Italian guy wanting to sign an act that then-CBS chief Walter Yetnikoff dubbed “transvestite rock.” But despite Dileo’s macho exterior he had a fairly open mind and—more importantly—an ear for a good pop song. “I think,” Dileo says—pausing to reemphasize those two words—“I think I have a sense of what’s commercial and what isn’t. Even back when we did The Clash the president of the international company forced me to release ‘Should I Stay or Should I Go,’ when I knew [the big hit] was ‘Rock the Casbah.’ So I did it. Took it to 35 dropped it. Then we ran ‘Rock the Casbah’ to No. 1 and I came back again with ‘Should I Stay or Should I Go.’ ” Dileo’s assertions might sound grandiose except that by most accounts they’re true. In his 1990 exposé Hit Men: Power Brokers and Fast Money Inside the Music Business journalist Frederic Dannen makes the case that Dileo pretty much ran the show at Epic. Of Dick Asher deputy president of Epic’s parent company CBS—and no fan of Dileo’s—Dannen writes that “Dick was far more wary of…Epic’s head of promotion. Frank Dileo. Asher began to think that Dileo was really running the show at Epic a view shared by others.” Surely much of Dileo’s success was a product of his exceptional charisma. Maybe it’s a short guy’s survival skill but Dileo has a calm self-assuredness that makes him the center of attention without really trying. You don’t make the defensive line on your high school football team at 5-foot-2 unless you’ve got some big cojones. “Frank had this unbelievable sense of confidence,” former Epic director of publicity Susan Blond told Dannen. “Like everything’s OK. I’ll take care of it. No one could intimidate Frank…. They always thought he was working for them but if they had even looked at all he was running the whole thing.” Dannen describes one telling scene between Dileo and Yetnikoff friends who enjoyed a little macho head-butting. Yetnikoff had been lifting weights and bulking up so he summoned Dileo to his office for a show of strength. As Dileo describes it. “he ran from his desk and went into me like a football player. Well he hit me hard but he bounced off. I didn’t budge. See when you’re short you’ve got better gravity.” Amusing anecdotes aside. Dannen’s depiction of Frank Dileo is not entirely flattering. Much of Hit Men is concerned with the use of independent promoters particularly a group known as The Network one of whom—Joe Isgro—had ties to organized crime. Dannen suggests that these third-party promoters were a way for record companies to keep their own hands clean while using guys who weren’t afraid to bribe program directors. Though he never accuses Dileo of payola. Dannen describes him as a staunch advocate of indie promo men a claim Dileo doesn’t deny. “This is what guys like Dannen don’t understand,” Dileo says. “That was my field force. I had 60-some people. Say 40 of them are in the field. They have to cover all the pop stations the album stations the AC stations. Well sometimes it’s too much. So you hire independents to help. They can do things with the PD that the local guy can’t. And I don’t mean illegal things. I mean they can take him to dinner—it’s just the way businesses operate. It’s no different than having a lobbyist in Washington. D. C.” At one point in Hit Men. Dannen asks Dileo about accusations of The Network’s involvement with organized crime. “Yeah there could be one or two dishonest situations,” Dileo responds. “But you know it’s like if you’re in a restaurant right? And you order a steak and it comes and it’s bad you don’t quit eating meat. It’s one bad steak. And organized crime? That’s bullISH. There ain’t been organized crime since Capone died.” Asked now if he really believes that in light of his fact-based role in Goodfellas he grins. “Yeah. I believe that,” Dileo says. “There’s been disorganized crime not organized. That movie shows you how disorganized it was.” Dileo says that without independent promoters he couldn’t have had the success that he did. “I could move records up that chart faster. If I had a record that took 13 weeks to get top five. I have a problem. I want it up over played come down and let’s get the new group up. That’s why I was able to break more records than all the other companies. At one time in a 14-month period a new artist went gold each month.” Still. Dileo’s hot streak at Epic can hardly be pinned exclusively on his use of indies. Every major label at the time had a sizable budget for independent promotion—whether or not it was a shady business the playing field was level. Yet in a short time. Epic had risen from No. 14 to No. 2 in no small part because of the way Dileo handled a record that would become the greatest-selling album of all time. That wasn’t lost on the man whose name is emblazoned in script in the upper left corner of its cover. In the wake of Michael Jackson’s free fall into scandal and talk-show punchlines it’s easy to forget how he galvanized pop music almost exactly 25 years ago. When Jackson released Thriller in December 1982 in the heart of Frank Dileo’s Epic reign it went on to sell more than 51 million copies. Though exact sales vary these facts do not: The album was No. 1 on Billboard’s album chart for 37 weeks it spawned seven Top 10 hits (tied for the record) and it helped bring Jackson an unprecedented eight statues at the 1984 Grammy Awards. Jackson may look naive but when it comes to business he’s no chimp-cuddling moonbeam. In Hit Men. Walter Yetnikoff says of Jackson. “He has made observations to me about things like promotion which indicate he would be totally qualified to run a record label if he so desired.” Dannen himself describes Jackson as “an ambitious man with extensive knowledge of the record industry’s workings.” In his 1988 autobiography Moon Walk. Jackson writes. “Frank was responsible for turning my dream for Thriller into a reality. His brilliant understanding of the recording industry proved invaluable. For instance we released ‘Beat It’ as a single while ‘Billie Jean’ was still at No. 1. CBS screamed. ‘You’re crazy this will kill “Billie Jean.” ’ But Frank told them not to worry that both songs would be No. 1 and both would be in the Top 10 at the same time. They were. Not to mention that Dileo convinced a recalcitrant Jackson to do the video for “Thriller,” a 14-minute film considered by some the best music video of all time. “Actually he only wanted to do two videos—‘Billie Jean’ and ‘Beat It,’ ” Dileo says. “So while I was still working for Epic. [product manager] Larry Stessel asked me to fly out there and talk him into doing ‘Thriller,’ because he was pretty adamant that he wouldn’t do it.” Jackson who had been without a manager for eight months asked Dileo to fill the position on a Monday in March 1984 at the Beverly Hills Hotel. Two days later when Dileo accepted the music industry was abuzz. One unnamed source in Dannen’s book says. “Everyone turned *$%# green when Frank pulled that one off.” Out of the record-label frying pan into the megastar-management fire. Dileo started managing Jackson three months before the start of the Victory Tour which reunited all of the Jackson brothers. “Believe me that was work,” Dileo says. “Every brother had a lawyer and an accountant. We had to have white promoters and black promoters. It was quite a complicated fiasco. But I got Michael through it safely.” Among the three black promoters: Don King and the Rev. Al Sharpton. “That was before Rev. Al Sharpton owned a suit. He was still in sweats,” Dileo recalls. Bill Bennett head of Warner Nashville and a friend of Dileo’s since the late ’70s has one particularly fond memory of the Victory Tour’s opening night. “We were in Kansas City,” Bennett says. “and I said. ‘Frank. I’m going to Arthur Bryant’s,’ which is one of the most famous homes of barbecue in the world. And Michael looked at me and said. ‘Oh no. Bill. Frank’s a vegetarian now.’ So Frank goes. ‘Yeah. Michael’s looking out for my health.’ As he walks me out the door he gives me a key and says. ‘Meet me in this room when you get back and bring some barbecue.’ ” “Michael used to moderate everything I ate,” Dileo says. “It’s amazing—when I started with him I was 210; when I ended with him. I was 265. So that’s what eating healthy does to you.” After the Victory Tour. Jackson spent the next two years working on Bad. It sold a mere 32 million albums globally. Though it had fewer Top 10 hits than Thriller it outdid its predecessor—and every other album in history—in another statistic: five No. 1 singles. In September 1987. Jackson embarked on his first tour as a solo performer the Bad World Tour which Dileo produced. Though the hassles of dealing with the Jackson brothers’ handlers were absent. Dileo was in for the ride of his life—123 dates over 16-and-a-half months. It was the largest-grossing tour of all time putting Michael in front of 4.4 million fans on four continents. “It was a headache,” Dileo says—a grand understatement to be sure. “You were moving 213 people every three days. In London we played Wembley Stadium seven times in a row. 72,000 people a night. And we could have probably played it 10 or 12 nights but at the time they only had seven available.” Of course there was a lot more to managing Michael Jackson than producing world tours. “We did a lot of things. Michael and I,” Dileo says fondly. “I got to executive produce all the videos of the Bad album. I did Moonwalker. I got nominated for two Grammys: for ‘Smooth Criminal’ and ‘Leave Me Alone.’ And I won a Grammy for ‘Leave Me Alone’—as the producer of the video not the record.” Another managerial coup from Dileo’s Jackson stint was his negotiation for the Pepsi commercial. “I got [Pepsi CEO] Roger Enrico to pay me up front which was never done before,” he says. “In fact we cut the deal on the Pepsi jet. Once we agreed upon a price. I said to Roger. ‘OK there’s just one more thing. You’ve got to pay it all up front.’ He says. ‘I don’t know.’ And I said. ‘Roger did Elvis Presley ever do a commercial for Pepsi?’ He said no. I said. ‘Did The Beatles?’ He said no. I said. ‘What do you want to be—0 for 3?’ He shook his head and went into the men’s room and came back and said. ‘OK you got a deal.’ ” Dileo harbors no ill will toward Jackson over his firing in February 1989. “It’s a shame it ended,” Dileo says. “I really like Michael. It ended for a lot of reasons. First of all. Michael and I spent every day together for five-and-a-half years. A lot of people were jealous of that. And at that point in time we had a lot of power between us. There was one or two record executives and a lawyer possibly two lawyers that sort of needed me to get out of the way so that they had more control with Michael. And it also was a way for them to get rid of Yetnikoff who had a lot of power and was my friend.” It’s not hard to imagine why a bunch of industry suits wanted to get their hands on Jackson. But how was Jackson convinced? “Unfortunately they talked Michael into it,” Dileo says. “by promising him—now this is according to Michael and I believe this—by promising him that if he fired me and hired Sandy Gallin that he’d be able to make movies in Hollywood. Now the truth be told. Michael never made a movie. The only movie [besides 1978’s The Wiz] he’s ever made was with me and that was Moonwalker.” Some mid-level mobsters are horsing around in front of the Pitkin Avenue Cab Co on a warm summer night. After getting the evil eye from family boss Paulie Cicero one Tony Stacks dressed to the nines says. “It’s your fault.” He points to Paulie’s brother Tuddy—who’s built like a cannonball and waving a cigar in his pinkie-ring- and gold-watch-adorned left hand. Stop me if you’ve heard this before—it’s one of the opening scenes of Goodfellas a movie film students and wiseguys alike can almost recite from memory. Tony Stacks is Tony Sirico who’s been playing gangsters since he learned to walk. (He’s Paulie Walnuts on The Sopranos.) Tuddy meanwhile is Frank Dileo a guy who hasn’t so much as acted in a junior high school play. Call it typecasting—not to say that Frank Dileo is a gangster but he can certainly look the part. At least that’s what Martin Scorsese thought while directing Michael Jackson’s “Bad” video. “One day we were shooting,” Dileo recalls. “and Marty and the camera guy were talking about me. So I came over and I had my glasses and cigar and I said. ‘I know you’re talking about me. I can tell. What is it? Is my zipper open or what?’ ” Dileo goes into his rat-a-tat Scorsese impersonation: “ ‘Oh no no’—Marty’s kind of a nervous guy—‘no. I’m shooting this movie and I was just telling Michael [Ballhaus his cinematographer] that you look like this character.’ And I go. ‘Wait a minute. Hold it. You’re Martin Scorsese right?’ ‘Yeah.’ ‘And you want to put me in a movie?’ ‘Yeah.’ I said. ‘Come on stop jerking me off. Let’s get this movie rolling. Where do I sign?’ Though Tuddy Cicero is far from a lead role. Dileo is much more than an extra. He’s got several lines but more than anything he’s a visual presence looking like—well. Frank Dileo. He’s an essential hue in Scorsese’s palette whether he’s running under an umbrella in the rain threatening a mailman by cramming his head into a pizza oven or whispering in brother Paulie’s ear at a backyard cookout. Or blowing Joe Pesci’s brains out. “Actually the original scene was X-rated,” Dileo says. “Originally it’s. I shoot him and the camera goes to his forehead—he had a fake forehead—and it actually comes right out of his forehead and it was so bloody that they wouldn’t give us an R rating. So we had to redo that scene. It’s kind of a shame because I liked the original.” The Internet Movie Database might consider adding screenwriter to Dileo’s profile—sort of. During the film’s denouement—a montage where Henry Hill (Ray Liotta) spills his guts to the feds intercut with various thugs getting arrested—Dileo tried a little improvisation. “When they’re arresting Paulie and I’m in the restaurant there,” Dileo says. “there was dead air. Nobody was talking. So I said to the FBI guy. ‘Why don’t you guys go down to Wall Street and get some real *$%# crooks. Whoever sold you those suits had a wonderful sense of humor.’ “ ‘Who said that? Whose voice was that?’ ” Dileo says mimicking the director’s trademark scatter-gun speech patterns. “ ‘Who said that about the suit?’ And I said. ‘I did.’ Goodfellas led to a few other screen roles for Dileo. “I think I’ve done four movies six TV episodes,” he says. At least two of those roles were a real stretch. In the Wayne’s World movies he played Frankie “Mr. Big” Sharp—a record-company bigwig. Contrary to what you might expect. Frank Dileo’s Music Row office is a humble space in a nondescript building on Music Row. There’s no Mercedes or Rolls out front just a dented 1992 Honda Accord. He’s not preoccupied with impressing anyone. In fact he was hesitant to be the subject of a newspaper profile—“I just don’t want to come off as cocky,” he says. Several times he mentions peers that he says he’d love to get into the story to share the credit and he makes a point to emphasize that he’d be lost without his assistant. Lauren Denig whom he affectionately refers to as “Little Caesar.” But hanging on those office walls are enough gold and platinum records to make your head spin many of them multiples: Culture Club’s Colour by Numbers. Cyndi Lauper’s She’s So Unusual. The Clash’s Combat Rock and the crowning jewel: a case with 31 platinum copies of Thriller. Not to mention singles by Electric Light Orchestra. Charley Pride. Billy Swan. Harry Nilsson and Elvis Presley. But the real eye-poppers are the framed photographs. Seven Goodfellas stills are arranged in one large frame that hangs over the couch. There are shots of Frank with Prince Charles with Charlie Daniels with Michael and the Reagans at the White House. Immediately to the right of the door are four small photos that sum up the Frank Dileo story. Frank and his good friend the late Col. Tom Parker. Frank and Martin Scorsese. Frank and—wait is that him kissing Pope John Paul II’s ring? Believe it. A CBS executive in England wanted to thank Frank for his work on several records by overseas acts including Nena’s “99 Luftballoons.” The fourth shot is of Frank and Michael Jackson from behind standing at urinals in a public restroom. Above Michael’s head in Michael’s handwriting are the words. “This water sure is cold.” Above Frank’s head he wrote. “It’s deep too.” When Jackson went on trial in 2005. Frank stayed in Los Angeles for over three months on his own dime. “I know that he is innocent,” Dileo says. “A lot of people attack him for a lot of different reasons. One is everybody would love to get their hands on the Beatles’ publishing. And he’s just one of those guys he’s real kind and real nice and he can easily be taken advantage of. “In this particular case this kid had cancer he found him a doctor they didn’t have any money he allowed them to live on his ranch. And when it was over they didn’t want to leave. It was like blackmail. That’s all it was. “We talked at each and every break,” Dileo continues. “I wanted to let him know that I know he didn’t do it. In fact when I went there he didn’t know I was coming. It was very emotional. He went. ‘Frank. I can’t believe you’re here.’ And he started to cry. And I went over and I hugged him and we got on the elevator and he told [defense attorney] Tom Mesereau. ‘This is Frank Dileo. He used to manage me. I’ve had nine managers since then. He’s the only guy that showed up or even called to see how I’m doing.’ That was a very rough thing on him a very emotional thing.” The years since the whirlwind 1980s have been a little less action-packed. In the ’90s. Frank opened a New York office and managed or co-managed several acts including Taylor Dayne. Jodeci and Laura Branigan. And he got into the restaurant business partnering with Robert De Niro on New York City’s famed Tribeca Grill. “I was the first guy up with the money,” he says. “Outside of Bobby and Drew [the manager] there was me.” Several other investors had smaller shares among them Christopher Walken. Lou Diamond Phillips. Sean Penn. Bill Murray and Ed Harris. Dileo sold his share after more than 11 years splitting his portion three ways among the restaurant’s three oldest employees. Since the mid-’90s. Dileo’s been keeping a low profile. He’s a family man—he’s been married to his wife Linda for 31 years and wanted to be near his son and daughter both of whom were attending the George School. So he moved for a while to Bucks County outside Philadelphia. After his daughter graduated nearly eight years later he moved back to Ohio. Shortly thereafter. Dileo started to lose his eyesight. By 2004 he was blind a result of diabetic retinopathy. But a series of four operations over the next couple of years restored much of his sight. “It’s been in Chapter 11,” Dileo says. “I’ve been trying to save it for the writing community because it does have the best sound. But unfortunately with the past debt the leases that have been incurred and the obscure management style there’s just no way to overcome the debt to make it work. So I have to pull out of it and let nature take its course.” Meanwhile he’s started a management company where he’s working with singer-songwriter Galen Griffin. And he’s about to pen a deal to start a publishing company with a successful songwriter/producer. He doesn’t want to name names until the i’s are dotted and the t’s are crossed. So after so much success why keep going? “I’m in it for the love of it,” Dileo says. “I mean hey. I want to make some money for my kids. I’d like to make it more comfortable for them and my grandson who’s 3 years old now. And I really love the music. I love the business. I love the artists. That’s why I’m here.” Perhaps Frank Dileo was just born to be a mover and shaker a notion that McGee Management’s Frank Rand confirms. “I was an A&R guy before [Frank] started working for Michael,” Rand says. “And A&R people and promotion people are always butting heads—they can never get us enough airplay and we can never give them enough hits. So one day I went in to Frank’s office and we started talking and we had a constructive argument. I don’t even know what brought it up but I said. ‘Frank we’re in the record business!’ hey Frank–remember the Epic days of Mike McCormack and Richie Chechilo? How about little Mary Ann who worked for them? You better remember me because the biography I just read on you brought back so many memories. I still have the “Pope” plaque from Italy that you brought back for me and the Michael Jackson World Tour jacket that I actually use to wear. I even remember when little “Dominick” use to come to work with you. Those days were so much fun. I actually got to visit Richie last year and was the first time I saw him in 20 years; he is still the same Richie that I knew he was great. Anyway your life sounds the opposite of boring and I cannot believe you even have a grandson–WOW. I’d love to hear from you

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"10 Things Women Don?t Know About Men" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2008-08-04 13:12:55

magazine and its monthly celeb page titled “10 Things Men Don’t Know About Women,” but it goes both ways ladies. So indulge me for a few minutes as I share my “10 things” list. These are. I trust things you didn’t know about the guys you’ve entrusted your lives and heart to. Only now you know…but please don’t tell anyone where you got this info! 10. When you question our ability (think: “asking for directions plumbing a new faucet or financing the new Harley we bought on impulse,”) we immediately conclude you no longer love us. Try giving a thumbs up and a smile instead. 9. Like your shoe collection or spending $300 on your hair at the salon widescreen flat panel displays are REALLY that important to us. 8. You know that favorite running bra you retired but couldn’t part with because it’s well-broken in and has since change state your favorite thing to wear to bed and rest in? Yeah…not so sexy. 7. When we say we had a really rough day at work it means our boss (or our boss’s boss) failed to accept something we thought was important. Mix us a strong drink and just listen. Don’t try to solve the problem. 6. The importance we place on smoking an expensive cigar now and then is overblown. The stench and taste alter us color in the gills just like it does you. But humor us please. 5. If you know a sport really well share the knowledge. You gain instant cred with us when you spout sports jargon desire “spread defense,” or “3/2 zone.” 4. Contrary to popular belief guys don’t have to win every debate. If you’re alter don’t give in to us. Prove yourself and we’ll raise the pedestal we’ve already put you on. 3. We may not be able to spell and define efficacy but we notice your grammar and get turned on by the big words in your vocab. Use it liberally! 2. Part of how we size you up is by how attractive your girlfriends are. The prettier your pals the more proud of you we’ll be. It’s caveman thinking but 100% truth. 1. We may not ask “does my butt look fat in these pants,” as directly as you do but we want to know if you’re losing your attraction due to increasingly large like handles. We promise we won’t shoot the messenger…much XHTML: You can use these tags: <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <strike> <strong> “And I was on shaky land. Lost and not sure. I opened my hand and she held it like sinking sand.” – from "Forgive Me," by Missy Higgins Land of 10,000 Perspectives received the Thinking Blogger's Award from The World Ever Changing found at srkenney wordpress com/. Thanks for the recognition!

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"Real Men in the Kitchen" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2007-12-20 19:45:06

I was not aware that Jannel posted a new communicate and that she placed me in the kitchen as the "alter Up Crew". Now let's be alter.. the kitchen is a manly place to be. Real men spend massive quantities of measure in the kitchen. I lift weights in the kitchen. It is a well known fact that in nature the alpha male of the pack prefers to fight any upstart male pack members in the kitchen. The kitchen is a place of virility and power. I keep my testosterone in the refrigerator next to the Soy Milk and Tofu. And for the record real men drink soy milk. I am smoking a cigar and enjoying a pint of soy milk right now. And where am I doing this most masculine of all activities?IN THE KITCHEN. Which is why I cleaned up the kitchen after the tour. It is a man's job that could not be left to the frailer band members. Jannel and Dana. Well. Dana took one look at the mess and left for Mexico. What she doesn't know is that I stole her green separate so she won't be coming back to America any time soon. Good thing I actually know all the lyrics to "Stranded". (some nights Dana almost sings all the lyrics correctly). We are back from journey and our kitchen is in order just like the marines trained me. Did I tell you about the marines? I wasn't actually a marine but my uncle was and he once cleaned our kitchen on leave from Vietnam. Need a say more?If you want a ticket to the gun show look no further then the drummer from Clementine in his apron lifting 2 heavy oven mitts. A portrait of raw masculinity. Jeffrey Wayne

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"Cigar Aficionado?s Big Smoke - Final Report" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2007-12-12 15:51:06

Thanks to Jason for getting the up to the minute details up earlier. Here’s the final report: believe it Halloween for men ages 30-65. Door to door house to house space to lay grown men clamoring with bags wide change state to receive goodies from the world’s do cigar makers. Its a be jungle — participants receive a cloth carry and a voucher schedule and go around trading coupons for free smokes. Each displace is well-manned with friendly associates eager to give you a sample and some

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"Cigar EDT Spray 3.3 oz. Remy Latour Cologne - Perfume Center" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2007-12-01 21:31:36

Cigar Cologne for Men by Remy Latour. Launched by the design house of Remy Latour in 1996. CIGAR is classified as a sharp oriental woody fragrance. This masculine scent possesses a blend of wood scents of sandalwood and patchouli. It is recommended for daytime wear.

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"CIGAR Men" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2007-11-05 18:37:20

C. I. G. A. R. Men MOM and some of the other girls were just finishing up another discussion about this whole Senator Craig issue and do you experience what we open out? Well we open out that the most amazing thing about this whole air is actually the Ripublican party. You know the Ripublican celebrate also known as: The Conservative Party the Party of Lincoln the Grand Old celebrate the celebrate of God the Party of the Moral Majority the Party of Traditional American Values the celebrate of Fiscal Responsibility the Party of Patriotism and High Testosterone etc.. Now you might ask what is so amazing about the Ripublican celebrate? Well what is so amazing about the Ripublican Party is their ability to fool so many populate for so desire. This ability in itself is either a sign of genius or a sign of a nation of idiots. Come on look at them! For one they are not Conservative. Secondly they are not the celebrate of Traditional American Values. Thirdly they are not the Party of Fiscal Responsibility. And the list goes on and on. In fact almost everything that we taught was limited to the Demosaps is actually more prevalent in the Ripublicans. And with almost everything that these Ripublicans have claimed they have done the opposite. So for the last 7 years they undergo been fooling US with their little slogans and invocations of God. They undergo their little talking points with the allusions of scripture mixed in between. They experience that by saying Jesus is my Lord all the evangelicals will go into a rapturous swoon. They experience how to use the troops as a shield whenever the bullets of criticism go away to fly. And so while they were distracting US with these little talking tricks. And only God knows who else is out there that we don’t know about. Now the funny thing is that in the sexual scandals department the Demosaps are actually behaving. Either that or they have evolved. And having evolved they have learned to adjoin their tracks a little bit better after President Clinton‘s debacle. But with their history they knew that they couldn’t really fool US by claiming to be moral. Godly and all that other good stuff. And so they didn’t even reach. With them we were well aware of what we were going to get. And so of course the majority of US cut for the Ripublican charade. And they knew that we would. This is because instead of examining actions in this day we decide to cerebrate on words. Therefore regardless of what was actually done we liked what they were saying. Oh those words of theirs were pleasing to our ears. Mmm. Mmm good! After all individuals who say God arouse America after every sentence must really be good and Godly men. Mighty and moral men with extremely high standards. But unbeknownst to US this is not the case. Because in essence these individuals who were all shouting God Bless America were all Closeted. Ignorant. Gay. And All Ripublicans or C. I. G. A. R. Men. Smoke em if you got em boys!

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"MEN" posted by ~Ray
Posted on 2007-10-25 16:45:15

accept to the International Cigar Club forums. You are currently viewing ICC as a guest which gives you access to believe just a few of our many fine forums. By joining our free community you will have find to affix on a wide variety of topics communicate privately with other members (PM) act and act to polls transfer pictures and other circumscribe and access our many other special features. Registration is incredibly fast simple and absolutely remove so please move to join ICC's growing international community of cigar lovers today! If you undergo any problems with the registration process or your be login please contact our place Admin by clicking. This morning I received a phone call from a gorgeous ex-girlfriend who called 'out-of-the-blue' to see if I was still around. We lost bring in of time chatting about the wild romantic times we used to apply together. I couldn't accept it when she asked if I'd be interested in meeting up and rekindling a little of that "old magic". "Wow!" I was flabbergasted. "I don't know if I could keep pace with you now". I said. "I'm a bit older and a bit grayer and balder than when you measure saw me. Plus I don't really have the energy I used to have." She just giggled and said she was sure I would "go to the challenge". "Yeah." I said. "Just so long as you don't object a man with a waistline that's a few inches wider these days! Not to have in mind my be lack of go across mouth.. everything is sagging my teeth are a bit yellowed and I am developing jowls like a Great Dane!" She laughed and told me to stop being so silly. She teased me saying that tubby color haired older men were cute and she was sure I would still be a great lover. Anyway she giggled. "I've put on a few pounds myself!" So I told her to fuck off. __________________ PNOC=Peninsula North of Cuba Any Cuban cigars portrayed in this post are completely fictional in nature and any resemblance to actual Cuban cigars is purely coincidental. Ah the ole 'manifold Standard'.. created by men and to be used only by men. I would atleast ask her to send me a current conceive of of her naked before saying fuck off.. just a thought. The older we get the better looking we get. the older women get the older they get.. Its so unfair.. LoL... i got more women wanting to fasten out with me at 37 then I did at 27 or 21 for that be.. convey God im happily married. I would be one tired dude... LoL The older we get the exceed looking we get. the older women get the older they get.. Its so unfair.. LoL... i got more women wanting to fasten out with me at 37 then I did at 27 or 21 for that be.. Thank God im happily married. I would be one tired dude... LoL "If there are no cigars in Heaven. I shall not go." - attach Twain "The end of a good consume is a little saddening. In some believe it's a bit like losing a best friend who had time to sit and comprehend." - ZenWarrior you got a lot to learn though sunny. how to smoke real cigars and consume real liquor. such as scotch.. bud light and jager just aint gonna cut it bro.. LoL

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